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WHAT DOES NOT WORK IN THE MODERN ETIQUETTE

In these years something which should be very used is the etiquette, there is a lot of behaviors which have to be modified in social life, but anybody can go out and notice that in reality anyone wants to use it and even do not know nothing about it.

It is quite easy to look online for info about the etiquette, someone also wrote several books about this topic. It has been changed during the years according to the human development and of the general good sense; in this way, now we are quickly arrived at the current definition, called modern etiquette.

In Italy, which is my Country, the etiquette is not quite different from the rest of the globe.
This morning I read something on a magazine which forced me to stop and think a lot, especially about a specific matter.

Although, even if nowadays someone seems to be uninterested, a lot of arrays are great for the common good sense, however I read something which made me feel totally in disagreement and I guess it happened because of my personal experience.

It is alright to be careful when you handle the cellular telephone in a place where you are chatting with someone else or when you set the table for a meal with other people or when you choose what to wear according to the kind of occasion or again when you go for a walk with your dog.

It is alright everything, but I do not accept when it is said to be always smiling outside your home.

It could happen that we wake up with negative thoughts, they easily go to affect our mood for the rest of the day. We can try and try to catch our negative face, we can do it also for months when we think it is just for the good sense, we can convince ourselves that it is very important to appear always at our top. In this way, everybody will feel the positive influence we are able to radiate and will always ask for us, in an increasing vortex of popularity, but what about our real feelings?

Our body sometimes acts against our mind, it goes upstream without our consent, especially when it feels that our "human being" is constrained in a behavior which does not belong to ourselves.

It is unproductive and also very stupid to catch our negative feelings, if we do not want to be increasingly sad and lonely..yes, lonely, because forced happiness move away people, it produces the adverse effect as opposed to our hopes, because it is untrue and it is easily unmasked.

We are almost the same, we all have similar thoughts and similar ways of reactions towards life.
Believe me, it is actually better to show ourselves for who we really are, with our virtues and vices, than offering a fake facade, we can all live serenely and without conditioning for people's judgements.

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