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Boredom in the bedroom is something I think happens to most married couples. It may take a few years or longer before you both realize that there is a problem. I don't mean a problem that can't be fixed with a few minor changes.
In order to become less boring in the bedroom, it starts with understanding each another. After all if you do not understand one another, how do you expect to please the other one in the bedroom? By understanding one another one must first talk. Talk to each other and become more familiar with what the other likes and dislikes in the bedroom.

Talk to each other and become friends with each other as well. I can tell you from experience that if you are friends with your spouse you will become better lovers. Don't be afraid to tell your spouse what it is that you enjoy. If she is doing something you enjoy, be sure to bring that up and express how you like it. That will build confidence in your spouse.
I wouldn't advise you to come out and just start listing several things that he or she is doing wrong. There is ways to go about it. For example, if your man likes only one position during sex and hasn't wanted to do any other positions. You may have mentioned other positions to him and he may have told you that it is the only position he enjoys.
I wouldn't come back with something that would provoke an argument, but just ask him if you can try something new and see how he likes it. He may just not want to try another position because he is afraid that you wouldn't go for it. People would be surprised at just asking your partner what they like in the bedroom can spark up interesting conversations.
Things to stay away from while talking or bringing up sex talk in the bedroom would be:
1.) Do not bring up prior relationships
2.) Do not demand things of your partner
3.) Do not laugh at your partners ideas or it may cause them to never bring new things up

Try and be open to new ideas and do not bring other people into the bedroom talk. If you're open to new ideas then you both should be willing to try and see if it is what you want.

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