by Dustin Anderson

Created on: February 24, 2008

I would like to start by saying that I have read several of the views on this topic. I do not really agree to most of them. That is the reason that I love to talk about relationships with women and men. To find out when a man just wants sex or whether or not he loves you is simple.

I myself have seen guys manipulate women into having sex with them by saying some really off the wall things. Some men tell the women they love them when they actually don't, telling a woman that she is the only person he is willing to sleep with when in the back of his mind he knows different. But this isn't all men.

Most of the people talking about this subject are really saying that women are dumb and men are just in relationships for sex. Where they are wrong is that women are very smart and some of the guys love being in relationships with just one woman. The old saying "all men are created equal" does not apply to sex and relationships.

Some men, like myself, love to be in a relationships. So that means not all men are created equal. I'm not alone on this subject either. Not all men tell young women that we love them just to have sex with them. Some men actually love the women that they are with. Women can manipulate men just as much as men can manipulate women.

Manipulation is a part of the society we are living in today. I do believe that women at a young age believe that the man they are with should be romantic and want to love them for whom they are and not just for sex. Most men do feel this way in the beginning. But what women don't understand is that men get into ruts where we start to take advantage of the romance.

I believe that the reason for this rut we get into is because the woman begins to quit having sex with their men as much as they did in the beginning of the relationship. They want their man to enjoy her for who she is without the sex. Just to let you in on a secret, men build up testosterone and if they don't have sex and it is natural for them to get moody. If men are moody, then the likelihood of men to be romantic is out the window. I hate to be blunt but that is the way it is.

It is not about educating women about how men act when it comes to the subject of sex. It is about learning that television and real life are two totally different things. Everything on television and books about romance all have happy endings and in the world we live in, happy ending are far and few in between. Not all men are out to take advantage of women and some men have morals about themselves to make a woman happy as long as she doesn't take what she reads out of a book or see in a movie and try to apply it to her life.

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