by Elena Kravtsova

Created on: February 24, 2008

During our life we meet different people who leave different impression in our minds.Some of them are remembered because of their hot temper and their special way of communication with others,some-because of their shyness to start a conversation,some-because of their lack of words and tiredness to start or finish a talk.Of course,we would better speak to an educated person who has much to tell us,but there are ones who are interesting for us not because they are educated,but because they are interested in many things in the world and always ready to speak about them.The reasons of their interests are different:they want to know something new from you;they want to tell you something new;they want to argue with you about this or that...

The importance of effective communication depends upon your wish to start communicating effectively.If you have an interest in a subject,you will want to read much in order to be more informed.You will try to find a person who would explain you things which seem unknown yet.

When we communicate with people,we learn from them how to operate some word-combinations,where to use grammar structures which are different from ours.

While verbal communication,we study people we associate with.We have a great opportunity to look at their faces-the way they use mime when they are satisfied or disappointed.All these tricks help us understand how to use our own articulation base and capture someone's attention when we are speaking...

Effective communication means your ability to get somebody interested in what you are not only speaking about,but what you are going to say.

You will doubtfully speak to a person who doesn't want to speak to you because you're not interesting for him/her.You will feel it from the very first phrase this person is saying or the way this person is looking at you.You will look for a person who can find something curious in the communication with you.

When you read much,you memorize much.You memorize much,you have much to tell.This is the scheme of a good,effective communication.

Nobody likes illiterate interlocutors who are lazy to find a necessary book in order to read something new,and to share this knowledge with others.

This is one of the reasons why our kids don't like libraries.They are too impatient to find,sit and read.Computers have captured their minds so much - they trust them more than rare books which they can find in libraries,prepare reports and perform at school.Computers changed their mentality.Teenagers

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