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Dating Tips for Men and Women
Think Safety First

Excited about the new man or woman in your life that you've met either through a dating service, on-line Internet or phone chat line. Well let me give to you a little words of wisdom, think safety first. You have to take control over your own safety. Any good respectful person can understand this.

Be precaution, just because Mr. and Ms. Look so fine, are very attractive. Speaking the right word to you that you've wanted to hear all your life. Doesn't mean for you to allow your safety guards to be let down fully. Always think safety! In this day and age, we must think about our safety, while having fun.

You must allow all of the excitement of, meeting that new person to be slowed down. Think about your own self-care. There are too many schemer's out here, profiting off other peopledesire to meet that special someone. Men must use precaution when dating as well. Some women are in on some of these scams. The schemer's use the women to lure men to certain datingareas, once allured the men are beat, robbed or even worst killed. Men use proper care when dating a woman; make sure that she's sound in her mind. You might attract a fatal attraction woman.

Women according to statistic's, about 92% of women are either raped or assaulted. Do not allow a man's look and the smooth game-lines he run on you, distract you from thinking about the safety of your welfare. A good understanding man will respect you for thinking about your own personal safety. He will not have any problem with meeting with you in an area, where you feel safe. Too many young women and girls are coming up missing because they trusted the wrong guy. Use proper safety measure; you are more important than a first date.

Safety Tips

*Meet in a public place surrounding, where other people are gather. Like a nice restaurant,Movie theater or coffee shop. Just some where in the open.
*Arrange your own transportation plan. You are still meeting a stranger, For the first time and have no clue about how they really are.
*Inform relatives and friends about your date. Inform them with name, phone number,location of the date, where you will be meeting this person at. Now, hold on! I know that some of you are voicing about how grown are. You may be saying "I'm a full grown man or woman". Now, this is true, you are grown, However, There are a lot of full grown adults that has came up missing, murdered, raped and assaulted. So allow your full grown self to use proper safety measurements. If something happens to you, this will give Law Enforcement something to go on. Shoot,if you can get a license plate, get it.
*Do not become so relax on the date, where you start to consume excessively amount of alcohol.
Staying alert is the most key factor of safety rules. Consuming too much alcohol distort and impair your judgment and lower your inhibition while producing euphoria (self-pleasure).



Taking control over your own safety is the most important thing. Have fun and enjoy your date, with a safety mind set. Do not become a statistic.

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