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to get the opinion of many different people anyway, so don't focus on a single negative one. Remember that your happiness is valuable to you and no one has the right to take that away from you if you don't allow it.

Show the good in the bad
If you know a pessimistic person that always points out the bad of situations, you can combat the attitude by telling them the good in the situation, or even have them tell you the good in the situation.

Be kind, but don't be an ego feeder
Negative people often search for people to feed their egos to make them feel better about themselves, which is only a temporary gratification. It's important to be kind to the people around you, but don't overdo it to the point that people talk to you just for an ego boost.

Include the negative person in a positive situation
Sometimes it can really help to change the outlook a person has just by including them in a fun event, or happy situation. People can sometimes be truly missing out on the great things that life has to offer, so if you can, try to include them in something fun that you are doing. You may just happen to guide them back on the right track.

Isolate yourself as a last resort
Sometimes there are people that no matter what you try to help or resolve a person's negativity, they remain pessimistic. At this point, I recommend breaking ties with these people, and isolating yourself from them. There isn't much else you can do to help, so it is pointless to continue subjecting yourself to their negative attitude.

Dealing with negative people can often seem like a daunting task, one that leaves you feeling sapped of energy, but once you understand the cause of a person's pessimistic attitude, you can help try to fix it or recommend someone who can. Trust in yourself and do your best to see the great things in the world while trying to eliminate the bad. If you do this and do it well, eventually the pessimists will follow.

The way we see the world is often only a matter of perception.

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