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Most guys like flirting with girls. Very few know how to go about it properly. Many guys end up putting up with a lot of unnecessary rejection because of major mistakes in how they approach the opposite sex. This girl's going to tell you what to do to flirt with the girl of your dreams, and which pitfalls will leave you all alone in front of the TV eating cheese balls.

The most important thing to remember is that girls aren't guys. You can mug and act like a jock all you want, and you'll leave her as cold as a stone. Women just don't care that much about blatant sex appeal. It comes second to other, more important things. If you're a boor, or a bore, your pecs and your biceps will not save you.

Be Nice to Your Girl

Simple kindness will get you very far with just about any girl that you like. Always compliment when you flirt. Tell her that her eyes are pretty, mention that you like her hair or her dress. Be honest with your praise, but lay it on with a trowel.

Nobody likes to be cut down. Don't make this mistake with your flirting. If "your" girl is flirting with another guy, insulting her won't make her like you better. I've had guys do this to me out of a simple sense of emotional hurt, and it took me years to realize that they did it because they liked me or were jealous. Your girl won't get it, either. She'll slip through your fingers before you realize what's happening, and she won't come back.

Mind Your Flirting Ps and Qs

Many guys like it when a girl gets a little raunchy. They naturally make the mistake of thinking girls like the same thing. While you may run across a girl or two who likes to talk dirty when she flirts, it isn't worth offending the girls who don't to find them. So when you're first getting started, keep it clean. Figure out what kind of girl she is before you take that step into the realm of the naughty.

Which Kind of Girl Is She?

Another major mistake guys make when flirting is that they go after serious, relationship-minded girls with the thought of having a one-night stand. You need to learn to tell the difference between the girl who's looking for a little fun and the girl who's looking for a life-long mate. Telling the difference is just a matter of subjecting the girl to a brief questionnaire. Always ask the girl about herself. Show genuine interest in her goals and aspirations. Ask her what she's looking for in a guy. If she's worth her salt, she'll be glad you asked. If you two aren't looking for the same things, you may want to pay

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