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Most jobs require the majority of ones time in a relationship.Many jobs
require you work lots of hours or take you on business trips out of town
for days.No matter how you slice it or try to balance the job and marriage
relationship,the pit falls seem endless.

Being in two places at once is not a easy thing in a marriage.The busy fast
paced lives we live today seem to be challenged at every turn.Jobs along with

child rearing can be stressful to any marriage.Learning how to balance your
life and marriage takes a lot of patients and effort by both.

A little understanding and respect from both spouses is needed in compromising
and avoiding neglect to your marriage.Love and trust are good things to have,
but respect for each other in times of neglect and crisis ease the pain.

Tips for time investing in your family to avoid neglect to the marriage:

#1)Involve your spouse in conversation about your job.Figure out how to find a
happy medium and work towards finding solutions to spend more quality time
together as a family.

#2)Tell your spouse you love them every day,before going to work and after you
get home.Assurance and attention is soothing to hear in times of stress to the
relationship.

#3)Make time to be together for intimate moments and private conversation.Be
adult to each others needs,not part of the problem.

#4)Do spontaneous things that are out of the ordinary,like going for a walk in
the park,or to the movies and restaurants.Somewhere that you can be out of the
house for a period of time.

#5)Take a few personal days from work if able,spend them with the one you love.

#6)Take on some of the house hold chores to help out,get up with the babies at
night and let your spouse have a break.Surprise your spouse with a back rub or a
good massage.Whisper in her ear and tell her things to make her laugh.Laughter
is therapeutic and takes the edge off of daily stresses.

#6)The one most important thing is make your spouse feel needed.Conversation,
conversati on,conversation!Talk about your love for one another,kids conversations
are not what your spouse wants.Adult interaction is what your spouse desires most.

#7)Find time to make love,spouses need to feel loved and wanted even though you
jobs and home life deplete many of these desires.There is always time for love!

Avoiding neglect to your marriage has to be worked on every day of your life.It
never goes away.Avoiding the reasons only mount up and present more problems,so
hold each other tight, do not take each other for granted and strive to be the
love of your spouses life.

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