2/6/08

Even if most Modern women really don't know what they want; I do know that they KNOW that they would like to have the right to make that decision WITHOUT interference from an outside controlling FORCE! There are so many options in today's society that selecting one path can be very difficult;probably why most women choose to work and take care of a family. That way they leave their options open so to speak.

On the other hand, when deciding which option to choose, most Modern women do so thinking that they are making the selection without the interference of an outside source. Especially African American woman. Let me give you an example. At one point in my life I was about to be married, ring on finger and everything else. Then one day I looked up and the man that I was going to marry was marrying someone else. He let me know that he regretted it; but never the less he did. Later he figured out that he had been controlled by an outside FORCE. But he as well as the other female he married; thought that he had made the choice on their own, but they hadn't. I KNEW he loved me; always wondered why he did what he did?

Then while attending a state university, met a male that was interested in me in which we went out separate ways, but we were ABOUT to start the relationship back up when out of no where there came a FORCE that gave him his dream job; which meant interference in our relationship.
Again the choice was made for me; and him because the doors to make the kind of money he desired had been shut locally. In order for him to make the kind of money he had went to school for, they made him leave the local area/specifically, leave being around me.

But prior to seeing him again; I had met another male, who showed interest in me; this time the FORCE showed itself. The force used a big ADVERTISING sign in front of the restaurant where the male worked that said; "STOP THE RELATIONSHIP"; not quite in those words, but with the same message. But being that as an American woman living in the United States of America, thinking that it is my right to choose who I want or at least check out the person to see if they are what I want. And to make a long story short, at the present moment, even though I chose to date both men; the FORCE decided that the one that I went to college with should go out of town(specifically away from me); and the other one; after I met him;in order that he understood who they were(the FORCE);they cut his pay, gave him

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