I disagree. "Just Be Yourself" ("JBY") doesn't work. If it did, there'd be people all over you all the time.
I always tell my students to be your "better self". What that means is simple: become the person for whom your target audience (the men or women you want to attract) would be looking for.
Having hobbies is a great way of not only improving your own "interest level" to other people, but there are tons of organizations that cater to interests. Not only will you meet a lot of great people, but you'll also have something in common with them right off the bat.
Another aspect of attracting people (for me) is to have the skills you need in order to be able to approach women anywhere, any time. It's amazing that as soon as guys learn how to do this (not hard by the way) that women just seem to sense it, and will often approach - and even "close" - for them!
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