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on the outer physical reality. The person that exposes this tends to be the target by those who do not know the fullness of what this means. What is happening on energetic levels fails to be seen by most. Those of us that have the abilities that go beyond our 5 senses are seen as delusional.

What is real to one will be different to others just as what is freedom to one person will be different to another. To me freedom is when I am able to express the fullness of my soul's purpose without having to change my language, my action or any other part of me to suit another. When we are fulfilling our purpose we speak from love because we are fully in present time. Our words and actions come from our essence self so even if there fails to be anyone in the room that understands the verbal communication our energy will speak louder than the words. Some people will receive the information in the timing that is right for them. This can even be years later. That is why it is important to communicate with words and actions that are in the moment that come from our heart even if this is uncomfortable for us.



The most important message is that someone is speaking from their authentic Self. We become artificial if we are busy trying to find the words that will fit what we think the group will receive. When we do this we are operating from the personality trying to fit into somebody else's box. At the same time we are also imposing a belief onto them as well implying that they won't be able to understand.

When we are truly authentic we have good days and we have challenging days that have us stretching ourselves beyond our comfort zone. It takes a lot to put oneself out in the world from an authentic place and feel all our feelings. The only way we truly transform is by being wherever we are in any moment. Those that judge us are those that perhaps have yet to have the experience themselves or are identifying us as our personality only.

We can manifest great things in this world but are they coming from the authenticity of fulfilling our soul's purpose. All we need do is to express from our hearts and those that resonate with the message will respond. If people are really connecting with each other they are not judging or imposing their beliefs on others saying this is the way it is according to their belief system. They see beyond to a true connection with what the person is saying that comes from spirit.

We must go with the flow and forgive the limitations that people put on us by us not fitting into their box of beliefs. Relationships that are intended by our Soul essence will manifest in divine timing without the hindrance from the ego personality trying to control them. In this we must surrender.

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