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Changing your personality for a relationship is only good if you are changing to become the truth of who you are. This is the only real relationship we are having. There really is no "out there" in truth. There is only oneness.

At the same time each of us is a soul with a unique purpose that only we can do. The relationship with our Soul is what we must change for. From this relationship we create all other relationships in our world that are real.

If we are changing our personality for a relationship "out there" then we are separating ourselves from who we are. When we are changing ourselves in this fashion we start to live a false identity. People who are sincere live from their soul essence in service and are transforming themselves to be able to be more of who they are. The person who has to have someone in relationship with them to transform their life is actually drawing energy from that person they have to be with. There is a difference in being together from a place of true co creation and offering the talents and abilities that come from our essence than stepping up to fulfill a need for someone else that wants us to be a certain way.

There are many out in the personal development field that say being happy is the biggest thing to be. Transform your thoughts. This has value but it is not the whole picture. If we do not give a space for all of our emotions those that are perceived as negative go underground and become unconscious creating illness in the body and outer world relationships on an "etheric" level. Everything in our outer world is going to reflect what is happening within in some way or other. When we embrace all of ourselves we create authentic happiness without perceiving someone who has a message we don't like as negative.

The Being living their purpose is not always received by others. I had this conversation with this person earlier today and I was told that what I was talking about would be seen as delusional by those in the mental health field. My response was of course it would be because our world for the most part operates from a personality perspective that is outer directed in it's focus.

I spoke about how there are Beings of light that work with me in what I do and that I am told that some of the "energy" I am working with will be at work on the planet for the next 4-5 years. His response was to ask if I am working with any "real" beings.
What is happening on an inner level is more real than a lot of the fake relating that is happening

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