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began to pick up his speech patterns, much to my dismay. I swiftly put an end to it. My son imitated his great uncle out of admiration and probably thought this manner of speaking was an affectation. It may have begun an as affection or adaptation to the aw shucks, we ain't no city folk attitude that many rural dwellers hold dear, but over time it became indelibly ingrained. Over time "I don't got none" lost its grating foreignness and it became normal. But the problem, as I counseled my son, is that misuse like that whether verbally or in writing makes you sound dumb. It just does. Even if you're not.

Maintaining a certain fastidiousness with your language pays dividends in many ways you look and feel smart, you'll be a better communicator, and you'll be able to negotiate that kitchen remodel with the contractor in an efficient and rewarding manner.

Slow down, take the time to express yourself carefully. Our words are all we have. Remember when people used to say that? I give my word. Be reverent of our language - it took a long time to get where it is. Yes, it morphs and changes continually, with slang entering the mainsteam and colloquialisms hanging on for generations, but taking the time to speak and write properly improves the quality - and enjoyment of your life.

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