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calls were about business, and he had to entertain the clients at all those restaurants. Don't buy it, and especially if suddenly he needs to spend more money than he's bringing in.

I could go on and on, but I think I'll end with seven signs that your spouse is cheating. The truth is that if you're reading this, by now you already know. You may choose to be blind to the signs and pretend not to know what you know, but if you do, remember that you choose who you are married to, so don't waste time with bitterness. Either leave, or accept the cheater for what and who he is. It takes two to tango, even when someone cheats, so it might be wise to ask yourself, "Why do I choose to be cheated on?"

In life, our choices are no accidents and we must take responsibility and face the consequences of our chosen actions. The cheater is only one reaction to those actions. Anyone who cheats needs someone who's naive, which means that the cheater cheats on those with low self esteem. With this in mind, my best advice would be to focus on why you allow your spouse to cheat? The cheater must live with his choices, the same way you do, but we teach others how to treat us by what we say and do.

As for me, I'd rather be naive than to live with the pain a cheater creates. At the same time, I realize that it was I who chose to be naive. If I want to avoid a cheater, I need to grow in self esteem.

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