Hey everyone.

I'm 23 years old and i have 2 beautiful children.
i meet my baby father in a place i had no business.
for 7 years he had me under control.
he told me what to do, what to say, how to dress, were to go, were i cant go,
he basically ran my life.
i didn't know what to do.
he stalked my every move.
he knew every step.
and he would get very upset when he found out other wise.
i thought for 7 years how was i going to get me and my kids out of this situation.
it was hard.
i got black eyes, burns, busted noses, choked till my eyes popped out.
in front of the kids.
and you wanna know how i got out right..
i got stronger than him.
mentally.
and it pushed him away.
when you know some ones weakness then u use that to their advantage.
its you either die or he get rid of you which thats is what your trying to do.
you sit down and say he wont kill me then you say yeah right.
don't think.
take action cuz you never know how crazy the next person may be.
so when he pushed me away i left and never returned with his kids.
not that he cared.
he was a dog loose off the leash.
i never thought i would be able to get away.
he wanted me to be a slave for him.
satisfy his every need right after he just knocked me uncontious.
my life was crazy and i thought he was the man of my dreams.
yea when im dead.
his mother was right along with it.
controllingbecause she controlled him to doing what sh esaid so they could live a better life.
the just used everyonr and everything to there advange for no reason.
i couldnt blame them for the things they done i forgive them.
i know you like forgive them..
yes i do because it not there fault the never came from nowhere and they not going tno were either.
my mom always said that they were no good i should ahve listen.
now im 23 with 2 kids with my high school diploma and i work for the board of ed hoping to become a famous actor and movie writer.
i wanna be famous so i could turn around to every one that put me down and say hey do you need a hand.
cause now the need me.
he just didnt know what he had till it was gone.
im doing me know. and he still doing him lol.
i am a women. a young black women.
that enjoys life know. so ladies and gentlemen
live life to the fullest dont rush into relationships
hold it down and be friends first. life isnt that short.
tkae care

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