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Although a woman may be tempted and influenced by many factors to be unfaithful to her husband, the final choice to go ahead and actually do something about it is ultimately up to her. Even though the temptation may be great, you have to remember that it takes two to tango. Someone can tempt and influence her all they want but if she does not give in to them, the infidelity simply is not going to happen.

There are all sorts of behavior among individuals, and when two people are brought together in a committed marriage, they vow to love each other despite their differences. Even though they may know each other for years, the truth is no one can really know everything there is to know about someone else.

Each of us has been brought up differently. Even though we may be highly compatible, this does not mean that we are exactly the same at all times. Some of our behaviors are learned, and some of our behavior is despite what we have learned. When confronted with a situation there is a number of different behaviors to choose from to remedy the problem.

Most often the behavior we select to remedy the problem is the one that makes us feel the safest. We tend to resort to that type of behavior we are familiar with.

Many times we are not all brought up to face our problem, confront it directly and resolve it. This is not necessarily harmful, but it certainly does not help the situation either. A common belief is that the problem, if ignored, is just simply going to go away by itself. Of course, this is not going to happen, but it isn't going jeopardize the relationship more, and could buy you some time to come up with a productive solution.

Most people commit themselves to someone else and a marriage with no clue whatsoever about how to make it work. It is not like we are handed a guide book or a book of rules containing all of the answers.

There are still very few resources available to us to aid and direct us in solving marriage troubles when they occur. There are also not that many resources that help us identify possible trouble before it starts. Another thing that happens many times is that some people start to behave differently as soon as they realize they are married to someone and perhaps this wasn't the best choice.

This can create all sorts of strange behaviors to surface. Things may continue to go along very smoothly and then bit by bit these behaviors gradually take over and begin to show themselves. If the intimate communication between two married people begins

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