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TOP TEN GIFTS FOR THE HOUSEBOUND AND HOSPITALIZED

10. The gift of connection.
Being in the hospital, or stuck indoors at home, disconnects people from their normal lives. However limited their capabilities, they need to know that they are still part of the outside world. If the patient has access to a telephone, a short daily call can work wonders. Do some research about the patient's schedule, and ask at what time a call would be most appreciated.

When you visit, bring a newspaper, magazine, pictures, or tidbits of news. Keep it light and simple. A photo album, digital picture frame, or scrap book of family and friends can help the patient feel closer to loved ones.

A visitor's book beside the bed is helpful for creating a diary of care and concern. If a visitor comes while the patient is asleep of receiving treatment, s/he can leave a note. Comments left by visitors can be enjoyed again and again.

9. The gift of flowers.
This is the traditional get-well gift. However, half a dozen floral arrangements in a limited space may not be too much of a good thing. Check out the situation before placing your order at the florist's. During a long illness, it might be better to wait until later, when public interest has lessened.

Consider the possibility of a plant, a stuffed toy, a decorative pillow, or a pair of colorful bed socks instead.

8. The gift of distraction.
Anything that takes the person's mind off their situation has therapeutic potential. Puzzles, card and board games, books, art supplies, videos (if the equipment to view them is available), hand-held video games, knitting, crocheting or embroidery supplies, and craft kits can all be helpful. If it is feasible, do something together.

A tape recorder or CD player with headphones can give the patient access to music, relaxation programs, and talking books. S/he may also enjoy listening to you read or sing.

7. The gift of luxury.
Ahhhhh! Think spa and pampering. Toiletries, cosmetics, foot care sets, silky bathrobes, scarves or pillows, a sleep mask to shut out the light, a glittery piece of jewelry, some pate de foie and crackers, an aromatherapy candle, a facial, a manicure, a new hairdo, or a gentle foot massage can all help the patient feel uplifted. Check with the caregivers ahead of time to verify the appropriateness of your intended gifts.

6. The gift of communication.
Pretty note paper with stamped envelopes and a pen may encourage the patient to contact friends. A journal provides a place to record thoughts.

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