I would practice with my daughters father regularly attempting to extend love and kindness to a person who I could not possibly understand deeply enough to know explicitly as I had barely begun to scratch the surface of myself.
Even more must change in my life' I would say over and over daily, Mindfulness is key' I would repeat this too over and over, mindfulness is keymindfulness is keymindfulness is key'. And what ends up happening is something that changed my entire world and released me from the grip of expectation and desire enough where what little remnants still reside within me are very manageable. I decide at that moment to let my heart choose my life.
Now my heart chooses the words I will say and my heart chooses the actions I will take. From this moment forward and I kneel before all of you reading this and become humbly a servant in your world offering you my heart.
Even that which is not said or is not acted on has the potential to have profound affects on the world I am creating, living in and sharing with all of you! Maintaining focus on pure compassion with no judgment and no criticism, and meditating on things like tolerance and respect is what raises the potential to reap the gifts of peace and love. Just knowing this will have positively reverberating affects that extend to all. Basically what I decided, when I created the mantra to love no matter what was, what is, or what may become is that I will remain, indefinitely, for us all as all are of me. I take regular moments each day to reevaluate where I can be a stronger and more committed human and maybe even release myself from yet another idea that is not intrinsically of me, and to forever put in check that ego which has held me hostage for so long.
My apology to him and taking the blame
I made a phone call after this wondrous moment of "earthly enlightenment" to respectfully apologize for my misconduct, and my verbal limitation, and for having gotten on yet another one of my egotistical high-horses, riding unsympathetically through the world of another. I saw him that day.
I now see the human in us all. Not what he or she is doing to enhance or destroy their world but what they simply are and I work diligently to have no expectations, no limitations, and make no assumptions. My goal to unify through recognition of individuality is not unlike the so many others before me, but it is me, and it is free, and it's available to all of us just waiting to be explored.
I can not be stopped from dreaming
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