Lets talk about being a single father,in this day and age it's not easy.I'm a single father of too boys.One is a year old and the other one is 5 months.Now me being single is one thing,can't get a date or a babysitter is a whole new ballgame.OK most lady's now a days say,
they are so cute I just want two take them home with me.But they don't and they don't say anything about there father and I'm standing right there.Being a single father is a job all by

it's self.Making food, washing cloths,etc.That's allot and thats just the beginning,wait tell they get older.

You have two do the best that you can,for your kids.And hope they learn the same things you learn.And maybe more,making the right choices.My kids mean the world to me,trying to keep them safe a roof over their heads.My one year old he follows me all over the house,he eats everything under the son.Just taking him outside he would play till the cows come home.And still wants two play when he get in the house.Being a single father is very hard,not just because you're raising them by yourself,but because you need a partner or a wife.You need a nanny and fast!Making ends meet is very important,buying allot of pampers and wipes.Keeping a clean house is good to,unplug things that your not using.

I have two say being a father is the best feeling in the world.I love being a father,I love being there for them.Someone they can count on,someone they can talk to.I think that is the must important thing there is,for your kids can come talk to you about anything.If you can do that you would win the best father award.My five month son he can't really do anything but cry,eat, sleep and use allot of pampers.Now when they get sick you have two hold their hand,and help them go two sleep.Like i said i love being a father.

Its fun when my one year old,try to talk all he can say is DA,and bye.Hearing that puts a smile on my face.I think they both are going two talk to much,their going to talk too anybody.Trying to make friends two all people they see,if its a cute girl forget about it.
Being a single father is like being superman,doing super dad stuff.You really have to stay strong,and focus on the big picture.Raising good kids,that don't talk back two others,mainly grown-ups.Have them two listen,think and in life you will have challenges that they have two face.Working them with it is what matters.Thank you for taking the time to read this,have a great day.

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