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the dogs first meet, make sure they are both under control - either with sturdy leashes or separated by a fence. Don't try to do it solo, enlist the aid of a capable friend or the workers at the shelter. If the dogs are on leashes, just start walking forward, and plan on a good long walk - this method works better for dogs that may be less than receptive to other dogs.

If the dogs are in a fenced area, and are reacting well to each other through the barrier, let them have a romp together. Letting dogs meet in this way works well for younger, friendlier, more playful dogs.

I've used both ways with great results - take the advice of the shelter and be honest about your own dog's temperament.

- Prepare Your Home for the New Arrival
Until they get used to each other, and until you get used to your new dog's personality, make sure your dogs can be separated, especially at mealtimes and when you're away. Baby-gates work great; the dogs can see each other and see you, and even the largest dog may hesitate at jumping the barrier, especially with a bit of training.

Get new toys too, so your first dog won't have to share, as well as additional bedding, dishes, a new crate and a new leash too.

If your new furry friend is a puppy, all of the usual precautions apply - puppy-proof the house, get ready for house training and be prepared for your older dog to backslide a bit too.

- Homecoming
When you bring your new dog home, resist the urge to let them run around freely, sniffing everywhere - lead them on their leash, so you can gently correct any attempts at marking, jumping on furniture, getting in trash - all the things you don't want them doing in future. Don't forget to show your dog the door to the yard where they will be doing their business.

Depending on your first dog's temperament, they can participate or be left outside so as not to interfere. Remember, even if they were friendly outside the house, things may change on your first dog's home turf, so be alert to possible trouble, without being nervous (easier said than done, I know!).

- Monitor the Situation
It may take days or it may take months for your dogs to become completely used to one another. Until you are confident there'll be no trouble, keep them separated when you are unable to keep a close eye on things. Many professionals recommend that you NEVER leave two dogs alone together, and this particularly applies if your dogs are of very different sizes, or if they tend to have little spats.

-"Settle"
Normal dog-play can sound very rough and even vicious without ever drawing blood, but play can turn nasty in seconds. Make sure you teach both of your new dogs the "settle" command - they should stop playing immediately and go to their separate areas. Be sure to practice the command regularly, when things are relatively calm.

We all like to have friends with common interests, and no matter how much our dogs love us and we love them, there are certain activities dogs can only enjoy with other dogs. If handled correctly, getting your dog a buddy can enrich their lives, and yours.

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