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Engaging in the spirit of Denial

The word denial mean to refuse to believe or accept
We deny true feeling regarding our past and the people from our past.
We may find out that it is more comforting to pretend, like certain feeling
problems, desires does not exist. You know it's easier that way.

The spirit of denial bring us to the land of make believe, a place free from

reality. In this land you do not have to face true reality of life.

Denial camouflage it self, like a protective guard but hinder us from coping
with the real forces of reality.

In order to take on reality and cope with it, we must mentally prepare our mind
reality can be shocking sometime once the truth is reveal.

We must give ourselves time to deal with each real issue.

If a man is giving you signs that he does not want you, by changing his number
moving far away from you, parading other women in your face, mistreating you.

How many signs do you need to face the reality, that this man does not want you?

If your wife bring another man in front of you to the bedroom or another woman, hum,
could that be a reality sign that she is tired of you and do not want you?

Sometime we deny things, because it hurt so bad to know, that someone does not love you.
especially when you do not know, why. The other person were too much of a coward to tell
you the truth reasons, and they leave you hanging with the thoughts of what happen?

Not only are you puzzle about what happen, now, you have to face the reality that this
person is not coming back, this person does not want to be with you and move on from there.

The reality of life is that , They are not the only person out here in this world. The same thing that they seen in you and liked it, another man or woman See's the same thing or more in you.

Lift your head up and deal with the pain you are feeling and get back out there. There is somebody for everybody in this world, you just have to find them or they will discover you
a precious jewel in the mist of life dirt.

Reality simply mean to be REAL, if you are not real with yourself and about the things in your life. You can not be truly real with other people and people can smell a fake and phony person.

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