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I wish I had an answer for this that didn't sound so cliche, but I just don't. The best way to know if your husband is cheating on you is to know your relationship. If your relationship is based on truth, love and commitment, chances are he is not cheating on you. I have seen so many couples go through this and often times it was because one or both have put other areas of their life first. Your mate needs to be the most important person in your life next to children.

I suppose if there has to be a "list" then I would say start watching how often he includes you in outings. If he starts accusing you of being unfaithful and there are no real grounds for his suspicions, he is most likely guilty and trying to turn it around to you, usually as a diversion. Men go through a rough period starting around 43 and continuing until 50, sometimes longer depending on their social life. So do not mistake this "difficult" time as cheating, rather take that opportunity to be attentive and nurturing. Any man loves to be treated like they are the best in the world, the best lovers, the best in sportsmanship and even the best talkers, yep! So make them feel just so. There isn't a woman out there than can grab the attention of a man who is happily married and excited to go home.

Our lives are hectic, especially if we are mother's, wives, homemaker's and even out holding down a job or hobby. Take a minute to notice your significant other, tell him how nice his hair looks or how impressed you are with how young he looks for his age. If your sex life disappears, so will your faithful husband, so make sure you "offer" yourself even if it is the farthest thing from your mind at the moment. There are clever ways of making him think you are a sex goddess without even an ounce of sex! Back rubs and massages are a great start! If you wear him out at home, he is generally too tired to start up a new relationship elsewhere. Tired and nagging a lot? STOP! the quickest way to chase a man out of the house is to nag him out. Be the woman that he is proud to call his wife, guys like to make other guys jealous of the fact that their women do so much for them.

Now before you go and attack me for being on their side, remember this, next to a happy man is always a happier woman.

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