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If your partner has been cheating, not only can it be devastating to your relationship, but to your health too. Who have they been cheating with, and where has that person been? These are important questions. Did your partner use protection? When we learn of an affair, our hearts are shattered. We don't always think about diseases that could have been contracted by the affair.

You should seek medical attention and have tests run to check for diseases. Demand that your partner do the same. If you decide to stay in the relationship, find out what caused them to stray. Why aren't they happy, and what can be done to fix the problem. The most important thing in any relationship is communication. Express your concerns and ask questions. Do you truly love this person, do they love you? Do you have children together? If you decide to split up and there are children involved, they should be the first priority.

Another important factor is the other person. Is it someone you both know? Are they married? Cheating does not just hurt one, it hurts everyone involved and their families.

If you want to salvage your relationship, it's wise to seek counseling. talking to someone can help both parties gain perspective on the situation. It's also important to be able to gain some kind of trust again; this may take awhile. Each time your partner leaves the house, you may wonder if they are really where they said they would be. This can be difficult to do, but it can be done. If you truly love your partner and they love you, you can over come this difficult time in your lives.

Remember to stay strong, be honest and don't be afraid to ask questions. Let your partner know how you feel and ask them to do the same. Plan activities together and spend quality time with one another. Try to rekindle the spark that brought you together in the beginning. In time, they will gain your trust and slowly your lives together will grow stronger.

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