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Kissing Up to Your Boss is Common Sense

It all depends on how you define "Kissing Up" doesn't it? Job markets are highly competitive these days and if you need your job to support your family or to meet your financial responsibilities, you'd better be prepared to "go the extra mile" now and than.

Keep in mind, there are acceptable ways to do this and there are unacceptable ways. This is the part that is just common sense. Chances are your boss is an intelligent person, that's why he/she has the position they have. They recognize immediately those who are sincere and those who are not. Those who use "Kissing Up" as a way to get by without putting a lot of effort into their work will be noticed rather quickly by bosses who are on their toes.

Let's talk about what is acceptable and even necessary to make those extra "points" with your boss. These are the things that really decide how quickly you will get ahead at your work place.

Some things go without saying, but let's spell them out anyway. Attendance and punctuality. Those who are always late or feel it's ok to take time off from work, cost a company money. This will show up on evaluations and will be reflected pay raises, no doubt about it. That is how it should be. Good grooming is also essential and important as to how likely you are to advance.

Do your work as accurately and as efficiently as you can. Be thorough. If you make a mistake, admit it and correct it. Most of us do make errors now and than, trying to deny or cover-up these errors only makes them worse. Take responsibility for what you do.

Keep your demeanor appropriate for the type of work place you are employed at. A nice personality and an even disposition will make you more enjoyable to work with.

If you are asked to work overtime, and you can do it, you should. It shows many good points about you that your boss will take notice of and appreciate. It shows you are a team player, that you feel loyalty to the company, that you care about your work and how it reflects on you and your boss.

Some people, mostly those jealous of your success, may say that you do these things to "Kiss Up." I call it having a good work ethic.

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