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I like to make Curry together, with long rice noodles that are fun to feed to each other. The heat from the spices definitely start the juices flowing for later play. Foods like desserts are also fun to play with: squishy peaches, juicy strawberries, hot fudge, whipped cream, and long silky bananas can add to a very erotic food foreplay session.

YOU GET WHAT YOU PUT IN

Many woman complain that their men aren't romantic enough to get them in the mood for sex. Many men feel too unappreciated to want to give romance to their wives to put them in the mood for sex. The problem here is expecting the other person to put us in the mood.

If you want exciting sex, you have to act like you want exciting sex. Most men will agree that when a woman acts turned on by them, acts as if she can't get enough of his manliness, then he in turn can't wait to get his hands all over her.

If we remember back to those days when sex was hot and heavy; then we can see where our boredom has set in. After a good amount of time sex can become routine, there in lies the problem. Exciting sex doesn't have to be about trying new positions that only a yoga master can do. It doesn't have to be outdoors, on dinning room tables or hang from a swing, though those things can definitely spice up a sex life. It has to be about how much you want each other and how much you are each willing to put in to make your sex life HOT.

Trying out new little techniques, watching an adult film together, and doing more adventurous things like blind folds, handcuffs, and hot wax can create a sense of excitement of the unknown. This often brings couples backs to the days of first having sex, when everything was unknown and fresh.

Exciting sex doesn't require enormous amounts of talking; it requires action. Acting as if sex is a chore will make it a chore. Acting like sex is something you really want will make it fun and spicy.

Take time to laugh with your partner each day. Spend time connecting with one another everyday. Spend time doing little things that show each other how appreciated they are. Flirt with each other during the day to set up a sexual mood. Then spend time having some spicy foreplay and the spicy sex will soon follow.

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