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I know many have written about being in love, having a broken heart, and other things about that nature but many don't talk about how you get to that point in a relationship when enough is enough. You start off being in love or being attracted to that person one way or the other and you go with it. You feel happy with this person that you see certain things like little habits that if you were not happy with that person than it definitely would be a red flag that you conscientiously would make an effort to stay away from that person. But you are having a good time and it's always nice to feel an attraction with someone and learning about that person. How do you know when enough is enough?

I met a man and at the time I was already in a relationship that was on it's last stop. A coworker from a big corporation that we worked at, different departments, different locations. He was charming, funny, charismatic, warm, dark hair and dark eyes with a smile that would warm up any day if it were the sun. He was separated and had kids. They weren't living together. They didn't even live in the same city but he lived accessible to his kids who he adored. I would see him around a lot at this bar that basically that many people at this company would visit.

When we first started we talked mostly about the business and how life is general. He was the guy who made everybody laugh. He said he liked me because I made him laugh and it was rare that anyone could make him laugh especially someone that look good. We started getting comfortable and we learned a lot about each other. The thought of hooking up with him kept on crossing my mind because of the fact that if we did and it got serious than I would have to take him and all his baggage. Not to say that relationships with kids that are not yours is difficult but I don't have kids and I didn't know if at the time if I would be able to handle that.

So it finally happened and from the moment we initiated the possibility it was intense. Our first kiss was at that bar right in front of the washroom. I was going back to our group he was going to the washroom. We didn't plan it and there was no awkwardness involved. We kissed perfectly as if we having been kissing each other forever. I knew we had a connection but not this good this fast. As time progressed everything was falling into place.

We shared the same ideas, had the same wants and what we had that was different our differences complimented each other. I knew getting into this

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