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You don't need pills, organ extenders, Ginseng, the Kama Sutra, aphrodisiacs or any type of sexy undergarment to improve your sex life.

They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, we'll I am a man and this saying is no doubt true in my case. But they never tell us the way to a woman's heart.

It is my belief that the way to a women's heart is through laughter.

If women are happy, they will continue to enjoy themselves throughout the "interaction".
Also a funny man is a confident man and the last thing a woman wants is a desperate pleading boy. Be sure to keep your sense of humor throughout the whole interaction, never insult your partner during sex.

The thing that gets men scared before and during sex is "Expectation". Will I be good? Did she like that new thing I just tried?

I have devised a list of things that I think will help to improve any man's sex life.

1. Remember that sex is more about pleasing your partner than pleasing yourself. Make sure that you put her first, she comes first, and you come next, so to speak.
2. The intensity of the experience of the act is dependant on all that is done to lead up to the act. Make every moment seem like it lasts forever.
3. Be confident; remember that you are the powerful one so make your presence felt.
4. Interact: talk to her whether it is affectionate talk or dirty talk; let her know that you are thinking of her. Talking will allow you to try new things and if they aren't working out then quickly return to what you are comfortable with.
5. Keep yourself physically fit so that you can keep up with her.
6. Don't leave her afterwards, lay with her for a while and let your mind catch up with the images and feelings that you have both experienced together.

From these points you will see that improving your sex life is also dependant on being physically fit and feeling good and confident about yourself.

Amazing sex has to come from both sides, and a healthy couple will continue to try new things in order to please and surprise each other. I like to think of it as a contest and try to outdo her every time.

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