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Growing old doesn't mean being dead. In fact for many people, life begins at fifty, sixty, or even seventy. You are truly as young as you feel. Many of the older generation are easing back into the dating scene. For some people, this may prove to be an awkward situation.

The first thing to do is put yourself out there. Slowly ease back into the dating scene. Things may have changed since the last time you dated but change isn't always a bad thing.

Go to activities where you will be able to meet people. You can join dating sites, go to singles mixers, or agree to a double date with friends. Check your local paper for upcoming events in your area.

Do something nice for your potential love interest. Romance is something that will never go out of style. Send flowers, cards and notes. Invite the one you desire out on a date or for a walk in the park. Take the time to get to know them.

Be open to new possibilities. Try the new things you have been wanting to learn. Take a dance class, ski a slope, or run a marathon. Your place is no longer in the kitchen making brownies or stitching quilts.

Share similar interests. Try new things and be a teacher. Now is the time to do be who you wanted to be. Don't settle for someone just because you are tired of being alone. Go out and have fun. If the right person is meant to come along, They will. When you least expect it, the person of your dreams will be there.

It is true that windows are the eyes to the soul. Make eye contact when your potential date is talking to you. Listen intently when they speak. Use positive body language. Show interest. Smile with your eyes.

Use common icebreakers. Dead silence is never a good sign. Tell jokes or talk about the weather. Share laughter and humor. It makes you feel younger. Discuss your favorite sports team or musician. Avoid topics that will cause cross feelings.

Just talk. The more you do it, the easier it will get. Get to know each other. Talk about past experiences, favorites, and interests. Be up front about your expectations and goals. Make your intentions known.

Above all else, be yourself. Don't be mean or controlling. Show respect and you will get it in return. Be honest and loving, be caring, and compassionate. Be happy.

Try not to focus on outer beauty. Sags and wrinkles are all a part of life. Don't see it as growing old see it as maturity. The gray hairs are only life's way of marking beauty.

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