by Lucy Batcher

Created on: August 29, 2006   Last Updated: April 23, 2007

It used to be that an accidental touch of a hand was a surefire way to let someone know you were interested in getting a little closer.

But in the 21st century, with so much human 'interaction' taking place online, how do you get the message across?

Check out these five ways you can keep him online:

1. Respond to emails promptly

Finding a personal email in your inbox is like getting a Valentine - no matter what time of year it is. If you receive an email, reply right away. Your love interest will know you're paying attention and that alone will make him feel a little special.

2. Ask an 'innocent' question

Ask if he has any special plans for the weekend or if he's doing anything on Saturday. Not only will you find out more about what he does with his free time, you may be able to find an opening for a seemingly accidental run-in. You're going to that new Italian place? What a coincidence! I had planned to go there too... Get the idea?

3. Hint at an intriguing story

But don't spill the beans all at once. Mention that you're still unpacking your overnight bag and shaking the sand out of your shoes from last weekend's great adventure.

What adventure? Let him wonder. And in next to no time he will be sending you another email to find out.

4. Remember that a little bit goes a long way

Don't flood his inbox with pages of jokes and anecdotes. Keep it short and sweet. Very sweet. Even though you're dying to dive in and chat all day, show a little restraint. Better to leave him wanting more than wishing you'd give it a rest.

5. Sign off suggestively

Save that stiff businesslike 'sincerely' for your work-related correspondence. To end your letter on a flirtatious note, turn up the heat with a 'yours', 'wish I were saying this in person' or even 'xxx'.

It doesn't take a genius to adapt the basics of good old-fashioned flirting to the new world of online interaction. A little sweetness, a little coyness and showing a personal interest in him will get your message across loud and clear - even if it is only communicated through keystrokes.

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