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If you have thoughts of being with a male friend or any man that looks attractive, your not gay. Having these thoughts are completely natural. The day you should think your gay, when you masturbate or have sex with a male adult. Thoughts can be controlled or adjusted from personal viewpoints or visions outside your control. But the first time you physically touch another man, you have now crossed that gay line. Please don't walk that 'bisexual' for convenience, so you can feel better.

Thoughts are fantasy. We all fantasize about sex, to act on those sexual exercises are completely different. I remember when I was young I played with my twin brothers privates, and we also got told we played with other when two years old. But just like nature, we were curious. Now having an erection with another man is homosexual activity, no matter how you slice this pie hun.

If your looking at guy mags with nude body positions (porno mags), this means your definitely gay. You went out of your way to buy guy mags for pleasure. This also applies to videos with guys having sex together. Please don't try to watch videos with women and men, and say your not into men, your still seeing male genitals. Who knows you might have better sex with your women.

Your really gay if your going out to bars that gays hang at. Some people go to these establishments in groups (girls and guys)so they don't pinpoint their homosexual clues.

GAY ISSUES CAN DESTROY............

Many gays think about suicide because gay isn't social or if your family would find out. This is tragic, someone who kills themselves over being gay. All they have to do is find that perfect mate and live in gay community.

If you think your gay or have thoughts, just go get a girlfriend and if you still have thoughts because you didn't have a girlfriend for awhile, then most likely your gay (homosexual). Sometimes when young adults or adults have periods not having heterosexual partners, you may think about sex in thoughts with same partner (gay thoughts). You body goes through a lusting or just pure sexual overdrive. If you accidentally touched a man by a simple brush this can trigger gay thoughts. You have starved your body from sex, so any kind of touching can trigger your next behavior.

Let's say you didn't have sex yet and your a virgin. Did you know that your first touch can trigger gay thoughts. Let's say your at a friends house and he's wearing a thong and you never had sex yet, this applies to 20 year olds still being sheltered from dear mother all that time. So, John comes over and touches you with his delicate hands, there so soft. Because he has delicate hands, your mind has a fantasy over this. Your thinking one way but your mind plays a trick one you. Most times confusion can turn you gay.

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