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Any man who is seeking any woman is less likely to be hurt by rejaection. The ones who have their heart set on a specific girl are the ones who might not take rejection well.

If you do get up enough courage to seek after a girl, never expect she is going to turn you down. it makes the situation worse for a girl to know that you've already chosen her answer for her. On that same note, do get too cocky and think that the only thing she will say is yes. Accept the fact that she is allowed to turn you down.

If you do get the answer no, don't get depressed when it happens. Step back from the situation for a while and investigate what you did wrong. Did you come on too strong? Did you sound unsure of yourself. Was she confused by what you were trying to ask her? Don't suddenly think that the problem was you either. She may not be the girl you were seeking after all. Consider all possibilities and leave nothing out.

When attempting to ask out a girl, remember to evaluate her from a stand point first. I know you shouldn't judge a book by its cover but women are different. Most are transparent and you can already see their personality with just a few minutes of examination. Ask yourself these questions: Do I see my self with this girl in the next few weeks? Does she look like the kind of girl I will be able to have fun with? Does she seem like there's more to her than just her beauty? If you see that there my be a connection, you can go in for the quest.

Women don't like guys who aren't being themselves. Always remember to act the way you would if you were around friends or family. Don't fret if you're not that smooth, tall, dark and handsome guy you think us women always sought after. Be the guy you are even if it is the cute little geeky guys, I tend to like. Not ever girl wants a strong heart breaker.

Remember to always allow yourself a little time in between rejections, especially if it's the same girl you're trying to accomplish. Be smart and good luck at meeting your goal.

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