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may be a turn off to you, seeing that you can't read anything past the back of a container at GNC.

* Putting up a front.

You said you own a house, a car, and have no kids. I only find out on our third date that you Live in your parents garage, sleep in their station wagon, with your pregnant girlfriend....tsk tsk. Just tell me the truth, so I can climb out of the bathroom window at the restaurant. Hey don't act like I'm the only one who's done that.

* Flirting with other chick when you're with me.

Hey that's a good way to get my cappuccino in your lap, so what it burns get over it. eying some babe across the room, or flirting with the waitress is a total turn off. I think that you deserve a cup of water in your face too....overruled?

* Trying to get cozy.

It's not nice to continuously put your eyes, arms, hands, or yes lips where they shouldn't be. Not hot, and I might just make you sing soprano.

* Ladies.... you can be a turn off too here's the run down.
1. Saying "Like totally" every sentence is annoying.
2. Talking about you, you, you... is self centered.
3. Wanting a guy to buy you a car and house on the first date? Nice try... ain't going to happen.
4. Whining incessantly about nonsense.. is unintelligent, and remember if he can see your panties it's an open invitation.
5. Don't be promiscuous and then want to act like a pure girl when he moves in.
6. Don't be a drama queen, get a life and stop watching I Love New York.. sheesh.
7. last and not least...don't order a salad... for Pete's sake order yourself a steak.

Just be yourself, haven't we all learned that that's the best policy by now? If you still can't please them, move along to the next one, that's life.

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