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"Girl you must be tired, because you been running through my mind all day." "Baby are you from Tennessee? because you're the only ten I see." Using elemntary school lines on a girl that looks like she just walked off of a magazine cover will get you major rejection. Some guys are prepared for the worst, and then there are those who can't take no. Sometimes when a woman says no it's not always a personal attack on your character. for instance, maybe she just broke things off with her boyfriend. Maybe, she's having a bad day, or yes maybe you look a little bit too much like Jack Black or Bone crusher.

Coping with rejection can sometimes be hard, especially when you have an ego the size of the grand canyon. here are some things to remember, and keep in mind when a girl says "Go crawl under a rock and die...looser."

-1- Being agressive will never get you anywhere.

It is important that you learn to control your temper. Even though it may be natural to want to lash out when someone rejects you, it's just fine to go on about your business with your tail between your legs. Calling a woman filthy names is so elementary, and it only lessens your chances that she will someday say yes to you advances.

-2- Don't be pushy.

You don't have to ask us 100 times if we are sure. It is very obvious to us that you aren't our cup of tea, we hate pushiness it's a big turn off. Go have a chill section, you never know we might eventually say, "He is kind of cute."

-3- Sexual harassment...?

It will not change our minds if you try to shove your hand up our skirts at the microwave in the employee dining room. It may turn you on when we say no, but when you try to force yourself on us it turns us completely off. Don't be surprised if you find a cup of steaming hot coffee in your face.

-4- Stalkers

No one just drives by your house fifty-seven times and accidentally shows up at your sons football games every saturday. While you're standing in the stands waving our way, we have the cops on speed dial.

It's better to let us have time to think things over. Many times I have said, "Get lost on the freeway in rush hour traffic." To a man and he ended up my main squeeze. No one will always say yes to you. Rejection is just one of those things that happens. It not only happens to men, sometimes it happens to women as well. Just learn to move on, or if you really like her wait it out she may just come around.

Whatever road you may choose do not choose the violent one. Many women and girls have lost their lives because they said no. Be a sport about it and learn to cope, taking a life is not an ego boost.

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