by Kim Robinson

Created on: December 14, 2007

FORGET THE PICK UP LINES, GUYS!

If a man has self-assurance, makes eye contact, and has a great smile, he doesn't need to do a damn thing, except sit there. He does not need to be attractive if he has all of the other ingredients. Women don't care about that superficial stuff, the male model stuff; she desires a man to look her in the eyes and make her burn. Yes, burn.

This sort of man is precisely the one whom women will single out in a crowded room, and this is the man who will have an entourage of females fluttering around him all night long assuming she is the one who will go home with him.

If you think you're working too hard, guys, it's true, because the pick up lines will get you to no where's land, because women have heard every line before. My girlfriend told me a guy sauntered up to her in a club and said, "Do you hurt, honey?" She shook her head, no. "Well," he continued. "Cause it looks like you just fell down from heaven."

Better off saying nothing, babe. Absolutely nothing. And forget asking, "Are you a model?" It's a clich and a bore. It's old news. One might as well be saying, "It's almost closing time and this is my last line. It's all bull-*##*! And women know it.

Women want subtlety, romance, something fresh. She doesn't want some fool to behave as if he's desperate and horny, or worse than that, eager to have a relationship. Turn off! Flashing lights! Red flags! The next thing she'll be anticipating is "Oh, yea, by the way, I still live at home with my mommy and daddy."

The man, who speaks the least, speaks the most with his silence. He is mysterious and unsolved, which means she wants to be the one to solve his whatever- it- is. Less is always more and the unknown is a totally sexy. So, please shut up!

This man's eyes will penetrate through our skin. He gazes at us as if we are the last person on earth, as if we are uttering the most extraordinary sentences, as if he believes we are the most luscious creature in the room. Even if this man doesn't take us home, this experience will be enough to last all week long.

Good looks are merely a plus, but not a prerequisite. It's about his body language, how a man feels about himself, his smile. Oh, yes, his smile is high on the list. A smile can melt an entire body, an entire world.

It's the way a man feels about himself. And if he feels as if he's worth it, he usually is. If he loves women, the very depth of her being, she will know, and she will respond in a way he'll never expect.

No need for words. Burning her with your beautiful eyes is adequate. And a great smile will melt her right down to the floor. It not enough to look like Brad Pitt; without the other elements, you'll be going home alone, darling.

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