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The "art" of seduction may not always carry instant gratification sometimes you have to chisel away at your partner's hormonal existence like Michaelangelo to a piece of stone. There are many ways to achieve your ultimate goal, and many different outcomes. The angle that you approach your masterpiece with is going to depend on which of the following scenarios you are dealing with:

1) You want the action, he is watching football
2) He wants the action, you would rather watch Desperate Housewives
3) You are both hot for each other

In my experience seduction is rarely needed in the case of number 3...and of course the sacred handbook of women forbids me from revealing the secrets to seducing an uninterested wife so we'll throw number 2 away. So that leaves us with number 1 and if you're reading this than more than likely you are tired of competing with Peyton Manning for alone time with your spouse.

Things to consider prior to seduction:

Purchasing DVR - your husband would not miss a game no matter where your playtime leads you, and he will not be trying to look over your shoulder while you are pulling your best moves.

Planning around distractions - check the local listings to see when your honey's team plays. Plan your secret rendezvous for a night that is open. You can also use game time to your advantage, turn him onto you by sitting next to him and expressing interest in his game.

Taking a nap - If you must make your plans for a night that your hubby is distracted, take a nap while he is busy. That way you will have the extra energy needed for your 5th quarter party.

Waiting for commercials - if game time is your only time, then make it a commercial break it is the only chance you have of getting his attention long enough to possibly get him to leave the game

There is more than one type of seduction the three that I will give pointers on are playful, indirect, and direct. I recommend mixing up the types that you use to keep your creative inspiration flowing.

Playful seduction is actually very simple, but you would already have to have a very fun and open relationship with your spouse before attempting this one. If you don't have that openness with your spouse yet, don't worry it's easy to get there. You simply have to be more open about your fantasies which is seduction in itself. Do not be afraid to tell your husband that the girl standing in front of you in line had a nice body or that you found your waitress attractive. Lines like that will get his gears moving and

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