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When did we all decide mediocrity is acceptable? Somewhere along the way that is exactly what we as a society have done. Denying children the opportunity to compete with each other is, in my opinion, just not a good idea. Intense competition should not be forced on those who are not interested, I can agree with that. For those who are interested, however, I really fail to see the harm.

What part of life is not about competition? As adults we compete for just about everything. That is undeniable. Competition is of great value to everyone, children included. Competition is vital for any society that wants to maintain itself or grow in the fast paced world economy of today.

The trend today, especially in our schools, is to "save" our children and young people from the harm competing and losing might bring to their egos and sense of self-worth. I often wonder if the desire to stop competition among children isn't more about the parents egos than the children's. Mediocrity and lack of effort by the children will be the result if their is no competition among children. I see this in many adults whose parents think competition is harmful. In the long run lack of competition does more harm than a bruised ego suffered by losing ever will.

Some may argue it is not fair that some children are praised and rewarded for winning while the rest have to accept failure and disappointment.The important thing to remember is that competition does not always have to be about winning. The experience of competition can bring out the best in young people. Whether my child wins or loses is secondary to what can be gained by pushing themselves physically or mentally to succeed. It all helps prepare us for adulthood where we have to fight and win our own battles without help from anyone else in order to succeed. How is protecting our children and youth from learning how to deal with this inevitability helpful? Teaching children we should all receive the same reward no matter the effort is misguided at best. I want my children to be prepared for adulthood. Allowing some competition into their lives will help with this process.

Competition sparks creativity and excellence. Effort by all children should be rewarded, I agree with that. I believe competition will help bring out the best in all of them, win or lose.

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