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Unfortunately more than 50% of today's children spend up to 4 hours a day watching television. Excessive viewing of television during the developmental years contributes to behavioral problems.

A parent often underestimates the importance of imagination and play for children. To solve problems by themselves, children need to have time set aside for play without disruption. Exploration is fun for children and their confidence soars through performance. Children shouldn't have to worry about getting dirty otherwise fun turns into frustration. Risk-taking, arguments, scratches and bruises are part of growing up and these experiences equip children with skills to survive in an ever-changing world.

Expression of creativity in children is crucial in building intelligence and the ability to adapt to changing situations throughout life. A parent needs to play a key role in the promotion and guidance of creativity for their children. Creativity is for everyone; it is expressed through interest and curiosity.

The parent needs to encourage different types of play to challenge their child's use of logic, problem-solving, fitness and the ability to get along with other children and adults. Most of the time, let your child choose toys that interest them. For children in the 8 - 12 year old range, some fun opportunities for creative outlet might involve the following:

Board games such as checkers, scrabble, puzzles, reading, sports, dance, singing, girl scouts and boy scouts, art, music, fishing and pets.

Too often parents try to complete their own unfinished business through their children instead of promoting individuality. Recognize a child's interest and provide opportunity for exploration. It's important to avoid comparing one child to another because that promotes arrogance and narcissism. Emphasize the positive aspects of each learning experience or play and commend their efforts and team work participation with praise and hugs. It's important that children realize that combined efforts contribute to the fun of a game or experience. Through play children learn self-control. Make a point that each participant knows they are special.

Creative thought in children is often discouraged or condemned to be an interference with academics. Unfortunately, few realize that creativity is necessary for development of successful intelligence. Promote a child's wonderment of their environment by exposing them to different opportunities of play and socialization.

Parents need to set aside some time to participate in play with their children because this activity strengthens bonds and fosters cooperation that carries over to everyday interactions. Fantasy play is natural for children to try out new skills and creative expression. And parents should, at times, be a participant in their imaginary world.

If there is limited time to participate in play with your child, include them in meal preparation. They can help with meal planning by assisting in creating a menu for the week and a grocery shopping list. Encourage them to help you cook the meal; perhaps even reading a recipe and setting the table. This time in the kitchen together will allow for stimulating conversation and for questions about the successful completion of their homework. When everyone sits down for the evening meal, remember to acknowledge the child's contributions in front of family members. Children will feel a sense of pride and accomplishment.

Above all, emphasize that homework takes first priority.

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