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Flirting tips for boomers: How to do what doesn't come naturally

Hey boomers . . . there are good things to look forward to in the middle years and beyond! Many of you will find yourselves single and it isn't a curse. Being the homebody or quiet type doesn't mean you are condemned to a lonely, solitary life. With a little marketing savvy and by creating an appealing appearance, combined with confidence, you'll be amazed at the dating and friendship opportunities that will present themselves to you.

First of all, take a look in the mirror and make note of your good features. Don't dwell on the lines or the sagging skin; instead, think about how you can best present yourself to be considered someone's romantic partner. It's the little things that really count! Consider the following:

Does your hair style need updating?
Eyebrows, facial and ear hairs - are they under control?
Are you into the habit of a daily facial scrub to brighten your skin?
Are you moisturizing?
Some jewelery is flattering.
How do your nails look and are your lips moisturized?
How is your dental hygiene? Do your teeth need bleaching?
Are your clothes flattering your body shape?
Is your fragrance appealing?

And, most importantly, do you offer interesting conversation and do you sound upbeat? People are drawn to outgoing and happy people. Are you presenting that impression?

Ok, you've updated your appearance . . . now what? Well, for starters, realize the opposite sex isn't going to come knocking at your door. You need to mingle with other boomers to attract companionship. Identify where those places are located that harbor unattached people in your age group. The following are places where some boomers are finding new friends and companions:

Church, community clubs and pools, art & craft shows, cook-outs, special interest clubs (dancing, gardening, fishing, theater), single cruises. And, by volunteering!

Let all your friends know that you are open to meeting new people and that you are unattached. So many of our friends know of someone who is looking too - and maybe a connection will blossom through your current network of friends. We meet potential romantic interests when we least expect it.

If you are interested in someone, don't appear too emotionally needy. Start off slowly and evaluate the situation. Even though you may be very attracted to your new interest, this doesn't mean it will be a lasting relationship.

Ok, you love cuddling and have been asking your new interest to spend the night at your home, but don't have them move in just yet! Take turns spending time


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