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private. Some gossipy slingers actually have calendars to jot down when others get paid, go on vacations, or what they are doing daily. They will also use others for their own benefits by obtaining their schedules. The gossipy slinger is poisoning life.

Don't drink the poison of a gossipy slinger. Slide away from this snake and waste no time talking about things of no concern in your life. If a gossiper talks about others, they will also talk about your life. Stay focused on your ambitions.

4) The Jealous Slinger - Someone gets something, the jealous slinger wants it! These people want your blessings and are never happy for anyone that receives a blessing. They have a low self-esteem, embarrass others in situations, sling rude remarks, uncomfortable with themselves, and insecure. These people are insecure with themselves and anything becomes threatening. They are possessive and controlling. They think they need others attention and affection in order to be Ok. The jealous slinger is resentful of another's advantages.

Don't let a jealous slinger take away your blessings. Press on! Enjoy and be thankful for your blessings.

5) The Negative Slinger - Whiners that feed on a reaction from others. The negative person really doesn't want to resolve the problem. They have a poor me attitude which is constantly complaining about everything. First thoughts and spoken words on any subject are negative advice. They vision failure with no room for success. Their body language is negative and voice is usually loud. They will give you all kinds of reasons not to pursue your dreams or goals. The negative slinger is mentally too lazy to think of ways to solve problems or succeed. They usually become part of the problem.

Don't feed the negative slinger for all they want is to argue. Stay focused positively on ways to solve issues that arise in life. Everyday there are problems to solve, hollering and caring on with temper tantrums will not solve problems. Resolve issues with a good attitude and act upon what can be done to bring success.

6) The Selfish Slinger - Me first and everything is mine! A greedy person, they are concerned with their own welfare or advantage to gain something even if it means being deceitful. They show kindness to certain people that will put their needs first. A conversation begins with the selfish slinger talking about their interests and at the end of the conversation the topic is still about their interests. The selfish person usually lives alone and is

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