by Etta Warren

Created on: November 08, 2007   Last Updated: December 28, 2009

Though I would never claim to be an expert seducer of men, I do consider myself to be a keen observer of, and sometimes, an active participant in the art of seduction. You can never predict with certainty the outcome of a particular seduction attempt, too many outside agents could influence each one, but there are some key steps that can be taken to greatly increase a woman's chances of success when seducing a man. Some are obvious, well-known methods of luring in that smoldering eye-candy across the room, while others are much less apparent. Let's begin with the tips that will spark his initial interest:

1) Preparation: The biggest turn-on, as far as clothing goes, that I've heard of from numerous male sources is to show a little skin. I don't mean dress like a prostitute with cleavage, ass, stomach, and legs all hanging out, but a little subtle skin never hurt anyone. Guys particularly like it when they can see a woman's neck. Don't ask me why, but this really gets them going-so leave that slenderizing turtleneck at home and pull your hair slightly back from your neck.

2) Eye contact from a distance: Yes this age-old piece of advice is still a key ingredient when attracting a potential partner, but there are rules of engagement when batting your lustful eyes in the direction of the man you're after. First of all, the nervous, look-away-when-he-looks-back' stare rarely works. Instead, when your goal meets your glance, maintain the gaze for several moments, smile (a key aspect of seduction to be discussed later), and then turn your attention back to those you're in conversation with. Don't stare the man down with intense, death-ray eyes because you're afraid to blink while meeting his glance, but make your gaze as soft and come-hither as possible; tilting your head downward, so that you're looking up through those long lashes you plumped to perfection, is always a nice, added touch.

3) The walk-by: Go to the ladies room, the bar, to talk with someone you know, or any other place that involves your body passing through his focus. This one is simple: the more often he sees you, the more you're on his mind. Don't lap circles around the man, but one round-trip past him after the initial eye contact should be enough to get him thinking.

4) Initiate conversation: Hopefully after you've enticed him with your eyes and won him with your walk, the guy you're after will take the initiative to approach you and start up a conversation. But in the off-chance that he doesn't,

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