by Linda Sorcie Smith

Created on: November 01, 2007

To make a man fall in love with you, you must first fall in love with yourself. How can a man resist a woman who is naturally spontaneous, effortlessly charming and completely charismatic because she is sure of herself and knows exactly what she wants and how to get it? The answer is, if he knows himself and is worthy of you, he cannot and will not.

If you want a man to fall in love with you, then, you must spend some time beautifying not only the nails, hair and makeup, but also the soul, psyche and inner light. Instead of constantly following the leader, strike out on your own and become your own individual beacon, forging your own trail. Find out what makes you happy and then pursue it instead of trying to stay "fashionable and trendy." Spend time with yourself with no music, tv, cell phone... just some time alone to hear your own thoughts and ponder your own goals and dreams.

If you want a man to fall in love with you, he needs to be convinced that, having been chosen by you, he is the luckiest man around; that he has "won the prize," climbed the mountain. So you must find your own strength of character as you discover the rewards of making another person as happy as you are.

To make a man fall in love with you, you must know, understand and experience love yourself, for the world around you, for your friends and family, and for the man himself. The more love you give, the more you are given. The more gratitude you have for what you have been given, the more you are given.

Some of us have been given a life treasure, a partner who will walk the road with us no matter what potholes, ruts and fallen trees befall us. We, who are lucky, can only offer to share our happiness with you.

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