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attention from the dancer on stage, tip her accordingly (around $10 for topless, $20 for nude). DO NOT TOUCH THE DANCER when sitting near the stage! If you really enjoy a particular dancer feel free to tip her extra. Feel free to mention to your favorite dancer that you would be interested in a private/lap dance after her stage show. It is usually best to agree to meet at or near the private/lap dance area. Don't keep her waiting and don't make her have to find you, it is much easier for you to spot her.If you really enjoy yourself during a lap/private dance. Whatever you do, don't over extend yourself. This means when she says would you like "ANOTHER" means you just spent another $50 or $100. "Don't write cheques your body can't cash." If you do it will end in dramas. YOU DO NOT WANT THIS.

Club Do Not's
The biggest idiot move is asking a dancer for a date or her phone number, In all the years of being in Strip Clubs the chances of meeting a Dancer who will react positively to such a stupid come-on is so close to zero its not even worth asking. You come to the Strip Club to meet and interact with beautiful women. If you want a hooker go to a brothel.
Please do not HANG AROUND OUTSIDE A CLUB AFTER CLOSING,chances are you will meet a bouncer who thinks you are stalking the dancers. If you try and follow a dancer from the club chances are very good you will be arrested. If you can't get enough conversation that night with your favorite girl, come back the next night she is working IN THE CLUB. Attempting conversation outside will just get you in trouble. Treating a girl bad will get you ejected or at the very least make sure no other Dancers approach you for the remainder of your Strip Club visit. If you have nothing nice to say, do not say it! Fighting will possibly have you thinking about it overnight in the a jail cell.

Do not touch the dancers on the breasts and/or bum on the main area of the club, even if it is just a quick touch. Only do so if she has given you specitfic verbal permission to do so. In clubs where touching is allowed in the private/lap dance area, keep your touching restricted to the private/lap dance. Remember the club security is always watching. You will be warned once and the second time you will be ejected and the dancer may be fined or loose her job.

Don't grab or touch a dancer or waitress to get her attention. That surely will get her attention in the most negative way. Don't sit at the tip rail at (or near) the stage and not tip. Have


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