Time management can be difficult for adults, how much more for children? Most people usually procrastinate since it offers immediate reward or pleasure, like watching television instead of doing the homework, or partying rather than preparing for an exam. But that's just it: temporary pleasure. You often regret not doing your homework or preparing for an exam, later on. Wishing you managed your time better.

This lack of time management is often carried over into adulthood. If one doesn't know how to manage their time: deadlines are missed, reports in disarray and equally important events are overlooked. This often leads to high anxiety and stress. That's why time management is a skill that needs to be cultivated, preferably at an early age. Teach your children to use their time wisely in order to make the most out of it, without being exhausted. These tips can help.

A. REVIEW HOW TIME IS SPENT. Let your child figure how many hours he or she uses for: classes, studying, sleeping, exercising, sports, family activities and relaxation. This will help prioritize his goals and objectives.

B. MAKE A "TO DO" LIST. Let him write down things needed to be done: papers, presentations and tests. Then decide what needs to be done at the moment and what to schedule for later. Help your child create a schedule that works for him, not for you.

C. PRIORITIZE. Help your child go over homework or assignments. Guide him or her to figure out the important things and prioritize. Begin with the hardest task first. Also help him develop blocks of study time. He might get restless after an hour, so plan for study breaks. Have a study place that is free from distractions, in order to maximize concentration.

D. LEARN TO SAY "NO" TO INTERRUPTIONS. Teach your child to stick to his schedule and remember priorities. Turning down an invitation doesn't mean you can't do it another time. Weigh the consequences from decisions that take someone away from the schedule. Let him make a choice and learn from his mistake. As a parent, continue to give guidance and love.

Once time management is learned and developed, children will least likely feel overwhelmed by school activities or demands. Other advantages for children includes: increase in self-confidence, motivation, promotes review of homework, eliminates cramming and reduces anxiety. And most important of all: parents should lead by example.

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