by Lisa Kates

Created on: October 19, 2007   Last Updated: August 06, 2009

Is there such a thing as a true man of our dreams ? Yes there is.

Women want their ideal man to have qualities that they feel are important and even though these qualities may vary from woman to woman they are crucial for creating relationships. Romantic fairy tales are written with happy endings and even though life does not always imitate fiction women can meet the true man of their dreams.

This is a testament to meeting the true man of my dreams that I am happy to share with women everywhere. Some may scoff at the notion of meeting the true man of their dreams but by reading this true story they can see it is possible.

A true man of my dreams meant meeting a man who has integrity, intelligence, kindness and warmth and that is exactly the man I met. It was an unusual path that took me on an adventure to meet Aaron, but sometimes you have to take a leap of faith in order to meet the true man of your dreams. You should have faith, keep an open mind and an open heart and you never know where kismet will take you.

My adventure began three years ago while I was vacationing in the country with my partner. He was twenty-two years younger than I was and even though he thought we would be forever, I knew we didn't have what it took to stay together permanently.

We were an unhappy couple that summer morning as we left the city and drove to our cottage destination two hours away. There was utter silence with resentments brewing in the front seat over a silly squabble we had before we left home.

When we finally arrived at our rented cottage the weather was beautiful and the lake was right outside the cottage door. While my partner watched wrestling on television inside our cottage I took my cup of coffee and perched on a log by the beach taking in the beauty of the country.

While relaxing and sipping my coffee, I met a lovely woman from Ottawa. We liked each other immediately and began a conversation that took us through conversations about our marriages, our children, jobs and many other things that women talk about.

I discovered that she had a good friend named Aaron who wanted to meet a woman he could have a permanent relationship with. Like myself he was also divorced after twenty years. Following his separation Aaron was involved in a five year relationship which had ended. It had been a year since Aaron had a partner.

As strange as this sounds his name " Aaron " captured my attention immediately. I cannot explain this phenomenon other than I like the

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