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domestic violence is their but how can you tell if someone is being abused. their are so many different way of domestic violence. their is where you see bruises. but their is other way of domestic violence.
when someone is verbal abusing you. when they hurt you with words instead of other ways.
women or men who have been through domestic violence think their not worth anything. that is cause the abuser want the power to control you. when they think they have no control. the abuser feels like he has to hurt you more.

they will stalk you and get in side your head telling you will not amount to nothing.
the hardest subject for me to write about is when children are involved and they get hurt from the abuser.
if you have kid's with the abuser they will surely bring the fact up them are my kid's i am taking them away from you.
when your married to the abuser they have that piece of paper the marriage license and they also say i own you. no one owns anybody do not let anyone do this to you.
you are not a dog with papers that they own you.
you are human not no animal. i know so much about this subject for that fact that i was put through abuse from my ex husband. i was followed and threatened. oh yeah he even had his friend's after me. i felt like a prisoner when i left him. i couldn't go out of my house in fear of wondering where he is and what was his next move.
i felt as my world was crushed around me and never thought in a million year's that would happen to me.
i went through that for five year's and i left him in 1991.
you never know who is an abuser. but never let anyone bring you down. you are a person and your deserve better than that.
i was so scared of being stalked i even took self defense classes to defend myself.
if you are in a problem with domestic violence. call someone to help you. they have shelter's where they can not get to you and your children.

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