by Pat Sobleskie

Created on: October 03, 2007

I don't know how many times prayer has helped me to make wise decisions but I remember a couple of particularly life-changing decisions I've made based on prayer.

I had been working at a non-profit service-oriented agency for several years and was becoming disgruntled. One day I stepped out of my office and when I returned I found a fax on my desk. It was a job opportunity at a local college. After reading the requirements needed, I not only determined that I was qualified but I also knew the person vacating the position. She was my former journalism teacher. "In the bag," I thought as I carefully folded the paper and put it in my purse. I couldn't wait to get home to re-vamp my resume.

When I got home that day I knew I needed to pray about this all-important decision. I went outside, sat in a lounge chair, closed my eyes, and prayed. "Lord, You know I want this job but not my will but Yours be done."

Immediately, a thought entered my mind, "why do you want this job?" That was easy. This job would give me opportunities for advancement, prestige, more money, and it was even conveniently located closer to my house. In my eyes, it was a "no-brainer." But just as soon as I voiced my reasons for applying, another thought entered my mind, "I am not of those things. I am of service to others." It was my voice I heard but it was not my thought at the time.

I had prayed for advice and I had received it - plain and simple. Needless to say, I stayed at my service-oriented job, which turned out to be the wisest decision in the long run.

Another time when I was in high school, I met a boy. I don't know what there was about him, but I fell in love with him. I had never prayed about a boy before...after all, that was silly. But this time I did. "Lord, if Ed is the one, please show me the way." Ed and I will soon celebrate our 40th wedding anniversary.

Prayer works. There is no doubt in my mind. It's like asking a loving parent for advice - a parent who is looking out for your best interest. The only stipulation is that you, the child, must be willing to accept the advice and truly believe that if you ask, you will receive.

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