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For hundreds of years, the ability to attract females has been regarded as sort of a talent among men. Men seem to think that "getting a woman" is a skill that can be practiced and critiqued. Men think like this because basically, we're stupid. We tend to think that women are a different species with a different set of social rules and different languages and ways of understanding. While there are some differences between men and women socially, the similarities are much more plentiful. There are just some slight variations, and not understanding those variations is exactly why you cant get a girlfriend.

There are three main characteristics women (and men) are experts at detecting about the opposite gender. The first, sadly is appearance. In some cases a women (and more typically men) will immediately discard you as a possible mate solely based on how you look. The second is confidence and awareness. When you first talk to a women, she will immediately know if you are confidant in yourself, and if you're aware of all of the social rules that apply when first talking to someone new. This is the trait that most men have trouble with and are confused about. The third characteristic is a sense of humor. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING is more attractive to a woman than a man who can make her laugh. This is partly true because in order for a man to be funny to a woman, he naturally has to be confidant and aware of social norms. Since appearance is something that you have very little control over, I'll stick to talking about the second two characteristics.

We all (well, maybe not all of us, but most)have been in that situation where your on the bus, or at the bar, or in line at the DMV and somehow you've started a conversation with the very attractive woman next to you. Maybe you helped her pick up something she dropped, or bought her a drink, or something. Well, now that you know her name and she knows yours, you have to keep the conversation going. What do you do next? The most confidant thing you can do is try to get to know her. Ask her what she does for a living, where she works, what type of restaurant is her favorite, anything that gets her to talk about herself. Women absolutely love feeling interesting and will love the fact that your interested in them. If they feel you are, than they'll talk about themselves for hours while you keep feeding them with questions after they're done telling you one thing. No matter what she says, there is always

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