Golf is a sport that has a special appeal to a certain type of person. That person can be any age and gender, which naturally includes children. However, when considering children in relation to golf, there are certain pitfalls that should be avoided, and other factors that need to be taken into account.

1. Commitment. Before even considering whether you want to take your children to the golf course you should ask yourself one question "Is it what they want or is it what I want them to want?" It is easy in the heat of your own enthusiasm for the game to almost make yourself belief that your children will automatically follow your lead. However, whilst you might be fortunate enough to discover another child protegee like Tiger Woods, it is more than likely that you will not. What is important is to discuss it with the child. If they do not show an interest in the game do not try and force it upon them. They may decide to take part at a later date, but if not it is their life to choose.

2. Golfing vacation. Often the parent can get so engrossed with the game of golf that they will even spend every family vocation visiting some fantastic new golf course, possibly in another country. This is great for the golfer, but what about the family? It is bad enough the partner having to take second place to lady golf green but for the children it can be hell. Losing your dad to golf during the two weeks that you were expecting to spend time together, or even worse having to accompany him whilst he plays his rounds, can be heartbreaking. Therefore, it is important not to sacrifice your kids to golf. If you do want a golfing holiday then make sure that it is in a place that also provides holiday entertainment for the kids as well. Similarly, do not spend the whole fourteen days from dawn to dusk on the course. Spare an equal amount of time for the children.

3. Tuition. If by some stroke of luck one or more of your children takes an interest in the sport, by all means encourage them. Whilst this can include helping them with tuition, there are one or two things that you should avoid. Firstly, do not forget that the little person with you is foremost a child. They will not always react the way you expect them to, giving way to childish behaviour from time to time. Similarly, just because you have more experience, do not allow errors made by your child lead you to become frustrated, possibly ending up with you yelling at them. Be patient with the child. Remember you had to learn once.

4. Controlled behaviour. Finally, and this is more down to parenting skills than the kids, you need to ensure that if your kids are on the golf course they understand how to behave. Disruptive children not only take away the enjoyment of your game, they will also interrupt other golfer's pleasure. This is unfair on those playing the sport for relaxation and for the child. If you do not think that your child will behave in an appropriate manner at the golf course, then do not take them with you.

Children and golf can mix, but you have to remember that they are children first. They may take to the game, but if they don't leave them to their own path. If they do show an interest, nurture this with love and affection and do not allow your frustrations to surface. If they do want to accompany you, treat that as a pleasure. However, if they do not show an interest, don't forget to make time for the child outside of your golfing hobby.

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