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You will never who your friend is. That's what really happens in real life. Most of us are creating our own world. Most of us are creating these ideal persons in our minds who for a fact really don't exist in real life. Part of being human is having a friend.
They always say that no man is an island. You would always seek a company. Someone you would talk to. Someone you would laugh with. Someone you will share your life and memories with. But what if the person you trust the most is the one who's stabbing you at the back?
We all have a lot of friends. And what's going to hurt as the most is to know that the only person we trust the most is stabbing us at the back. The time that you learned about it, that's going to be a big challenge for you. Everything's going to be a matter of choice. Whether you will save the friendship or forget the friendship. For some people, most especially if they treasure friendship a lot, well then they might just forgive and forget.
But the thing is what if this happens again? Once a particular person became backstabber they will always be a backstabber. For few people who values trust a lot will not think about the friendship anymore, and will think that friendship will be nothing if trust cannot be practiced anymore.
I used to work in call center companies. Customer service representatives to be exact and our customers are all Americans. Since American companies are outsourcing their call centers in our country. I met my boyfriend who is an American from work. We didn't meet him personally but over the phone. We talk over the phone and chat on the internet almost everyday. We've been into the relationship for almost 4years. Like other typical guys who love their girl so much, I received a lot of gifts from him delivered internationally from United States, even cash for he was sending me allowances every month. I were taking Nursing that time since we already have plans that after I finish my Nursing we'll get married in United States and I will get a job there too. But not till I met this girl.
My work is like 100miles away from my hometown so I always need to rent a dormitory near to the place where I work to make it more convenient for me. It just so happened that my officemate suggested a dormitory to me that is secured and near to the highway. From that dormitory, I met this girl who was very nice. Well I thought she was nice. We've been best of friends, like sharing thoughts, dreams, foods, money everything.
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