do you build one of those great long tunnels I hear hamsters love so much?" you turn and ask the man next to you.
Watch his face. Examine his body language.
Look to see if his eyes flick down to your ring finger to check it out too.
When his eyes have finished their exam and return to your face wait to get past the automatic responses that happen because you are cute or beautiful or have a great figure or are dressed in a unique or alluring way, or you have no ring on your left fourth finger.
His face may light up at one or many of those things.
That automatic reaction you can find anywhere.
What you look for now is a special movement of the mouth. A little upturn at the side of his lip. There may be the forehead reaction of a bemused raising of an eyebrow. A hand gesture that says "Oh yes, been there, done that." (This is true for either man or woman on either side of the question at the moment.)
Of course there is much more to it than that.
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The title of the article actually sets forth 2 questions.
The first: How to find someone who loves you.
The second: someone who loves you and your pet.
The two questions morph into each other.- love me, love my pet.
Pet can be any animal and the behavior of man and animal, no matter what the animal, has many similarities. but for our purpose, pet = dog.
It can be presupposed that those who are at the dogpark are not allergic or have other medical reasons why they cannot be around dogs.
The benefit of the park goes beyond the basic issue of does the person you are interested in love dogs.
Not everyone there may have a dog with them.
If they are not looking for romance with someone who is a dog lover maybe they are looking to have some hang time with dogs. That person, not in the market for romance, may become a friend who later comes to love you and your dog Sparky.
If they live in an apartment building that does not allow animals or they feel that they do not have enough space, for instance, their presence at the park still shows that they want to be around pets
and hopefully too, people who love them.
Watch the way the person interacts with the dogs whether or not they brought one of their own with them. How they treat their own dog as well as the other dogs there gives out a mountain of information.
If someone is mean and gruff, yelling and pulling at their animal's leash they are probably not the kindest of souls. How will they treat you, much less your
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